Response to Cecilai K

You are not being unreasonable at all, there is no need to be friends with an ex. Usually the new significant other feels uncomfortable about it and shouldnt have to feel uneasy about someone who is in the past. Even if only out of respect your boyfriend should know better, maybe he wasnt as emotionally involved with her as i know people get, but it is still such a small sacrafice to make for the woman he loves. You cant possibly gain anything positive by staying friends with an ex and i dont care how mature a person may be- you can be civil- but not friends. I personally think its strange when people are friends with exes, its just so unlikely that one or both people involved arent still harboring SOME negative feeling about their failed relationship.